3 Lies A Sugar Daddy Tells In His Online Profile!
As a sugar daddy finder, before you lie on your online sugar daddy profile, it's important to know that when you first meet a sugar baby, she thinks you're lying to her. You know what sugar babies value most in a sugar relationship? That's trust. If your online sugar daddy profile is full of lies, sugar babies will immediately distrust you. Then, no matter how good a sugar daddy you are, spend all your time convincing her that the real you are not a liar.
So let's take a look at the four biggest and most common profile lies sugar daddy tells online, and how they affect you.
Lie about your age Many sugar daddies are afraid their age will scare sugar babies away, so they often lie about their age on their profiles. A 45-year-old man would say he was 39;A 55-year-old man would say he's 45.When you lie about your age, you only cheat on sugar babies until you actually see them. If you say you're 39 at 45, sugar babies will know you're not 39 when you first date. In fact, she'll probably ask your real age. The standard response from most sugar daddies is: "I look so much younger than I am that if you knew I was 45 you probably wouldn't have dated me. That's why I say I'm 39."
Wait, let me tell you one thing: if this is a sugar baby looking for a man before age 39, then you're right, she probably doesn't want to date you anymore -- because now she knows you're 45.If she says she just wants to meet someone within a certain age range, say 35-40, then this is her requirement, not a loose guideline. She won't date you again, not only because you're not the person she said she was looking for, but (again) because she'll see you as someone she doesn't trust, because you've already lied to her once.
So if you want to date younger women, be real. Also, what do you think lying about your age in your online profile tells you? It says that you are uncomfortable with your place in life, that you are dissatisfied with your age. If you're a sugar daddy courting young women, this may make her think you're emotionally immature. Maybe it's time to stop chasing your dreams and start figuring out who you really are.
Reflect her Sugar daddies love to fill out their profiles with all the inaccuracies of a romance novel. Many men who are interested in hooking up with women write profiles of themselves online to make themselves look like they are in a relationship. Sugar daddies are no exception, saying they enjoy walking on the beach or that they are "all about romance" when in fact they are only interested in casual sex with the sugar babies they meet.
If you just want a casual sugar date, don't mislead sugar baby and don't write a romantic-novel profile, because it will make sugar baby feel emotionally connected. You need to be clear about your intentions and write them down. For example, you could write something like: "I'm not sure what I'm looking for right now. I want to meet some fun sugar babies, date and have some fun."At least it doesn't give people the wrong idea.
Use old photos One of the most common lies sugar daddies tell in their online profiles is the photos they use. There's no doubt that we all want to put our best foot forward, so sugar daddies tend to post their most attractive photos on their profiles. They may post photos of themselves losing 20 or 30 pounds, or even more hair.
But here's the problem: any sugar baby you meet on a sugar daddy dating site expects to see the person she sees in these photos -- just like you see in the photos. It really has nothing to do with your physical appearance; It's just that you don't look the way you portray yourself. In other words, your online profile is a lie. When you meet a sugar baby after Posting these photos online that have nothing to do with you, her first impression of you is not how you look, but that you are not being honest with yourself.
What most people do is protect themselves. They might tell the sugar baby, "don't worry, I'm just putting on weight or my hair is just temporarily falling out."However, defending yourself is not the way to start dating. You don't want to have an uphill battle on a date -- especially a first date. So the best way to start is to get a sugar baby excited about knowing the real you and everything about you.
What you should do: stay away from professional photos because they can make you look too fake. Instead, go out with a friend and ask him to take some pictures of you that day. So women can see you for who you are. Also, make sure you wear different clothes for each photo so you don't look pretentious. The most important thing to remember is to have fun! This is your first impression (along with your online profile).
Finally, I would like to say that this is not a criticism of you, but whatever you want to do, it is very important to be honest. You need to avoid going on an emotional journey with a sugar baby you're not prepared to spend time with. Also, be open about your true interests. Do you really want to spend time pretending you like art museums just to get some sugar babies to like you online? In fact, don't pretend to like what you don't like, the real best.
Remember, whether it's your body, age, or your desired relationship, it's always counterproductive to distort yourself online. You need to believe that there are millions of sugar babies waiting for you to know and connect with. Just be true to yourself. Good luck!